3 Way To Satisfy Your Woman In Bed
Sexuality Articles | July 26, 2012
It is not uncommon for men to question their prowess in the bedroom. Are you doing a great job, or not so much? If you think you know how to give her the best orgasm, you may be surprised about what you do, and do not, already know.
It is not uncommon for men to question their prowess in the bedroom. Are you doing a great job, or not so much? If you think you know how to give her the best orgasm, you may be surprised about what you do, and do not, already know. A woman who is satisfied in bed will often return the favor, and the steamy times together can ultimately form a stronger bond throughout all the relationship. A lover should ask himself three very important questions when working to give her the best orgasm.
1) What is Her Body Saying?
While this may seem like common sense, it is the single easiest and yet most overlooked way to tell if you are doing a good job. When a woman likes what you are doing to her, typically she will not move in a way that prevents you from doing it. For example, if you are kissing her face and she rolls her head away, she may be feeling a bit smothered. If you are working around her clitoris- be it with hands, mouth, or other- and she rocks her hips away from you, the stimulation is probably a bit too intense. A woman that is pushing into the stimulation, however, probably wants a bit more pressure to reach her climax. Look for other subtle gestures, too. Some women curl their toes or have a noticeable change in breathing patterns just before the big moment.
2) Did you hit all the hot spots?
A little teasing is what takes a good orgasm to a great orgasm. You can most easily do this in 3 ways. Touch around the erogenous areas- neck, nipples, lips, etc- without actually touching those spots. Tease the pink. Pink flesh is always more sensitive, and a very slow and soft touch can really heighten sensitivity. Work her body from head to toe. Women enjoy being touched all over, and focusing on something that is not typically sexual can bring in an added layer of excitement. Use these three concepts of foreplay, touch, and teasing to bring her orgasm to the next level.
3) Is the sex becoming routine?
While it is strongly encouraged for couples to remain sexually active for many reasons, it’s not uncommon to fall into a rut. This is the easiest piece of advice to integrate. If sex for you is typically at the end of the day, giving her the bedroom eyes at 2pm on Saturday before going out for a night on the town can be very exciting, and often leads to an even more exciting encounter again when returning home. Try surprising your partner with a sexual encounter when unexpected (but not inappropriate) often turns up the excitement a couple of degrees to really kick her satisfaction, and yours, into high gear.
